I was attending a fundraiser; a male legislator was talking to our group. He said he wanted to contact my boss, and as he showed his phone to the group and pulled up his messages, I looked down and saw picture of me in a bikini.

He quickly hid his phone from view and I pretended not to notice. I was in shock and unsure of what to do. He made the mistake once more before the night was over and I was mortified.

I feared that saying something might affect my new job as relationships with Legislators are so important.

Danielle Kando-Kaiser